There is a scripture that says Judge not let ye be judged. This blog has been twelve years in the making. I first got an idea on how to help others in 2013, but I was not focused enough to build upon the idea and turn it into a blog. As the years went by the idea kept popping into my mind. Thoughts would come to me on how to expand it and go about building this grand plan of how to help others. This blog is a part of that master plan.
I did not have a good childhood. There are some things I should have learned in childhood but were not learned until I became an adult. I learned false perceptions about love and life in my childhood. My vision for this blog is to sincerely help others. I am not looking for anything else. I am recently divorced and someone sent me a link to a marriage coach. I looked into it, and it is ten grand to join this marriage coach’s class. I do not have ten grand laying around nor can I afford to finance it. The way I see things is if someone wants to sincerely help others why are they charging an arm and a leg for the help? If someone wants to sincerely help others do it for free or at a nominal cost and the money will follow. I figure that by doing this blog and offering my own insight into why I made my choices and what I learned from those choices, I may help others to see things in their life in a new way which could serve them better. I also feel that perhaps this blog may bring like-minded people together who are working to better themselves. If nothing else, it will be my online journal and help me learn to write better and communicate with people better.
I will be relating stories in my life, in the hope that my past mistakes and follies may help someone not commit the same mistakes in their life. Or perhaps something in my posts may give someone an idea on how to better themselves. I ask not to be judged for my actions as I relate them in my posts. Most of my past choices were based upon false principles of life and love that I learned in childhood. I am sharing what I have learned and my perspective so that others may learn from me hopefully. If not, then at least people may get some laughs from some of my choices and stories. It is my sincere desire to help others without expecting anything in return. If I can help one person, that will give me joy even if I do not know them or how I helped them.